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Use Your Whole
Body
Talking the talk without walking the walk is
utterly ineffective. Try telling a woman she's beautiful or a guy
he's hunky and then shift your eyes away, and see if you're
believed. Flirty body language begins with eyes and works its way
all the way down to tips of your footsies. Lean forward, make eye
contact, smile, bend your knees a bit and untense your hands and
arms. Remember to relax a bit; this should be fun, not defusing a
bomb.
Make Eye Contact
Looking someone in the eyes
is very compelling. And it makes a person feel like they've got
your're undivided attention, which they should.
Smile, don't smirk
There's a reason why
synonyms for smirk include sneer, leer and grimace. It's an
unattractive and unpleasant expression. Avoid it. Smile openly and
sincerely - it's irresistible.
Pay Attention
No looking like you're trying
to remember if you fed the cat.
Lighten Up, Don't Bulldoze
Telling your date
they're incredibly hot isn't flirting. It's steering your dating
experience directly into a mountain.
Don't think you can't do it
Anyone can flirt
.... even if only a little. Flirting is a sign of confidence and
even if you're feeling a teensy bit shaky, give it a try. Practice
makes perfect and flirty. You don't have to be smooth, just
sincere.
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